Long Distance Dates

99 Fresh Fall LDR Dates for Long-Distance Couples

Looking for a way to add a little bit of pumpkin spice to your LDR dates this Fall? These ideas are warm and cozy and are all long-distance compatible. Everything here can be done over a video call or done remotely but together. We know the challenges of having LDR dates while being so far apart from each other- but hopefully, these creative and fresh fall LDR Dates will bring a little love to your season!

Please let us know if you try any of these ideas. If you have an idea that’s not listed, please send us an email; we’d love to share your LDR dates with the community. We have included links to a few of our affiliate partners that we think would be beneficial to other long-distance couples! We receive a small compensation if you choose to purchase from them.

What is your favorite Fall tradition? How are you going to make this season spectacular?

LDR Dates for Fall

1. Facetime from a Farmer’s Market

2. Carve pumpkins on a video call

2. Paint each other surprise paintings and mail them to each other

4. Buy the same scented candle for ultimate cozy vibes

5. Make hot chocolate together

6. Watch your favorite Disney movies on Disney+

7. Order each other candles that match your personalities on Etsy

8. Make each other a playlist full of songs that make you think of fall

9. Try making your own pumpkin spice lattes

10. Write gratitude lists together

11. Do a baking challenge to see who can bake the best apple pie (don’t forget ice cream!)

12. Plan your Halloween costumes

13. Read each other ghost stories or scary camp tales over a video call

14. Order magnetic matching bracelets to wear while you’re apart.

15. Listen to a True Crime Podcast together

16. Make a joint playlist together with songs from your relationship

17. Press some fall leaves and mail them

18. Send a letter with a sample of your favorite tea

19. Watch a scary movie together

20. Bingewatch Stranger Things on Netflix

21. Build a blanket fort together

22. Set up a Virtual Paint Night

Long Distance Paint Night Online Image of Paint supplies

23. Do a cheesy movie marathon

24. Do a virtual Haunted House – especially ones that are designed for LDR dates.

25. Play a video game together (horror game if you’re brave!)

26. Do an online date from DoveyDates.com (They’ve released a Halloween Maze for free!)

27. Make some apple cider or mulled wine to enjoy on a cozy video call

28. Do an online course together (Masterclass, Coursera, or Youtube)

29. Make a craft together

30. Do some online shopping for your Christmas list

31. Do a virtual escape room (Here are some from The Escape Game!)

32. Paint pet rocks together to keep company while you’re apart

33. Make caramel apples together

34. Buy both of your favorite candies and compare flavors

35. Make a couple’s Instagram together

36. Make lists of why you’re thankful for each other

37. Try making your own caramel or fudge

38. Learn how to knit

39. Make each other handmade cards

40. Go on separate walks around your neighborhoods and send photos of what you find

41. Spice up your typical Netflix date with some of these games & ideas

42. Do an Autumn picnic

43. Make a lego set together

45. Both get a deck of cards and see who can build the tallest card tower

46. Play board games together using Tabletop Simulator, Board Game Arena, or Tabletopia.

online date chess game

47. Do a Halloween themed dress-up date night with costumes

48. Watch an online magic show

49. Read a book together and discuss it every week

50. Make breakfast and eat it together in bed with a video call

51. Take an online cooking class together

52. Order takeout and put on a vintage movie

53. Play a game of poker online – winner gets a prize!

54. Start planning your next visit together

55. Make up your own board game (Uno with new rules, Jenga with custom blocks, make your own game board)

56. Do a beer tasting night

Two Beers for a date

57. Make your own pretzels

58. Movie marathon all the Lord of the Rings movies

59. Make fondue together for a cheesy & delicious video call

60. Visit here.fm and make your own custom date night board.

61. Make a group Pinterest board together

62. Do separate trips to book stores and pick out a book for your partner that you think they’d like

63. Play Truth or Dare together

64. Write a short story together by writing one sentence each.

65. Do a “Pajama Day” video call

65. Make “Open When” letters for your partner

66. Watch a movie neither of you have ever heard of.

67. Make pumpkin spice kettle corn popcorn

68. Use Google Maps to go on a walk through a park filled with fall leaves. (Click here for some beautiful options from Google Earth)

69. Make a quiz for your partner about your likes and dislikes

70. Compare photos of your Halloween costumes from previous years

71. Try to find your way through a virtual corn maze (Try this one from the Edmonton Corn Maze)

72. Roast some pumpkin seeds

73. Do face painting on a video call and compete to see who can create the best look

74. Visit a virtual museum together (Here are 12 options!)

75. Make s’mores and eat them on your video call – or try roasting marshmallows!

76. Create a memory box or scrapbook of your times together

77. Look back through photos from Summer

78. Make hand casts to send each other so you can hold hands while apart. (Try this hand-casting kit!)

79. Create a countdown calendar for your next visit (or purchase a letter board to keep one like this!)

80. Bake pumpkin bread together

81. Decorate your doorways for Halloween

82. Surprise your partner by ordering them an Autumn Bouquet

83. Take your partner to a virtual aquarium date on DoveyDates.com!

84. Put on your coziest clothes and have hot cocoa together

85. Order a Paper Pigeon Journal to mail back and forth with fun activities.

86. Put on a fireplace video to watch together and have a cozy video call to chat about your dreams

87. Play 20 questions together

88. Make your favorite hearty soup together on a call

89. Ask family members for their favorite family secret recipes and attempt the recipe together

90. Print out ‘coloring therapy book’ pages online and have a coloring contest

91. Play mini-golf online

92. Listen to some romantic stories from an LDR podcast (like International Love Stories or Love is in the Air)

93. Plan out how you would each spend a million dollars – compare your dreams

94. Order appetizers from your favorite restaurants to be delivered

95. Do puzzles together on a video call. If they have the same amount of pieces you can race!

96. Watch a Youtube concert together from your favorite artist

97. Plan an imaginary road trip together – What stops do you visit? What food do you try along the way? What route do you take? What landmarks do you see?

98. Use Aggie.io to draw, paint, and create together in realtime to add some creativity and chaos to your ldr dates

99. Start an official Fall tradition together as a couple and make plans for next Fall together

We hope you enjoyed this list of fall activities for long-distance couples. Please let us know how your Fall LDR dates go and what challenges we can help you face by sending us a message on social media anytime!

99 Fresh Fall Date Ideas for Long-Distance Couples
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